Sunday, September 19, 2010

It's about time.

This summer right before school began Eric and I had a great vacation and it's about time I finally wrote about it! And so begins our great Mexican Adventure. Be prepared for a long post with LOTS of pictures. I planned to post each day on vacation but soon found I was having WAY too much fun! So here goes.

Eric and I are lucky enough to have dear friends, in particular, super close friends who decided to have a destination Wedding in MEXICO!!! And, since the groom works at the Four Seasons Hotel in New York, we were booked at the Four Seasons Hotel in Punta Mita. and seriously, this is worth getting rich for. Now that you have the background information on our trip let's begin the adventure.

Our vacation kind of started on Friday night. Isabella was always invited on this trip but Eric and I made the decision that since she is so young and probably won't remember it, is nearly two so kind of a handful,since Eric would have a lot of best man duties, and since Eric and I truly need some couple time we decided to arrange for her to have a mini vacation with Poppie and Nana. So Friday night we took her over around dinner time so we could run a few pre-trip errands and pack. And as usual, once we were baby free we spent the evening celebrating our vacation. The only bummer so far, I had a killer headache I couldn't kick. So after packing, relaxing, eating cheap T.V. dinners we finally made it to bed around midnight.

3am comes far too fast and I wake up with a continued killer headache (Thanks Amy for loaning me the Excedrin, it was a life saver) We pulled ourselves out of bed and hit the road for the airport. Check in, security, boarding and flight to Phoenix were all very smooth. We also got to travel with Niki's (the bride) parents Bill and Coleen and her brother Billy and his girlfriend Samantha, all dynamite travel buddies. They treated us like family even waiting any time Eric and I had to stop for anything or fall behind. We saw a ton of small children on our travels and although we missed Bella, the screaming toddler in customs line reminded us of why we chose to have this romantic get away.

We arrived in Pueta Vallarta in the early afternoon and were picked up by a Shuttle to the airport. The shuttle ride was a blast and took about 45 minutes. We knew we were in for a good time when they greeted us with cold lemon scented towels. Then once we got to the resort they escorted us to a beautiful patio off of the lobby where they handed us cool drinks and brought the registration TO US! That's right, no waiting in line or at the front counter. All transactions were conducted as we lounged on the patio. Here are a couple great pics from our arrival.















Our awesome travel buddies.
















The cute Iguana that hung out with us while we registered.
















After registration we headed to our buildings (taken by golf cart which you could call night or day to drive you to where you wanted to go, not matter how far!) Eric and I were in Flor which seemed like an awfully long way from the others but we quickly discovered it was central to everything else and a truly perfect location. Plus the room was gorgeous. As well as the view from the room.































































We didn't spend too much time in the room at that point since there was way too much to do. We quickly changed into our seats and headed for the pool, the beach and then of course The LAZY RIVER!!! I think the lazy river was really the hit of the party as that was where most people wanted to spend their time. After quite a while everyone realized that we should probably get something for dinner. The concierge rec commend a restaurant off the resort and at Sunset we headed that way. The sunset was one of the best parts. It was incredible!






























Dinner was amazing, the owner of the restaurant was a delightful man who brought out complimentary appetizers. We then had gazpacho and an amazing meal who's name I cannot possibly spell. There was a mariachi band playing for us and the best part was that the restaurant was literally ON THE BEACH. Not only did I slip off my shoes at dinner but I was actually able to wiggle my toes in the sand! That, and most evenings we stayed up late hanging with The Heathes' and Garcias' in cabana's on the beach or patios and often watching a rainstorm.


The next morning (Sunday) Eric woke up early to go deep sea fishing with Rich, Brandon, and Chris. They all caught barracuda's who, clearly kind of funny looking, are also not great to eat. They had a fantastic time and Eric took some beautiful artsy photos.









































































































While he was a way I induldged in some serious Trish time. I slept in, lounged around the room and read my book club book, then took a walk around the resort taking pictures of the beach, my toes in the waves and the pools. Then joined the rest of the party at the incredible breakfast buffett and spent my morning by the pool, in the lazy river or reading in a cabana. This was also the day that Nikki and I got manicures and pedicures.




















































That evening we had more incredible food at the welcome reception by the adult pool. We were reintroduced to Nikki's friend Trista ( who worked at Sunnyside for a long time and we talked daycare for a while) and then stayed up late again on the beach in a rainstorm.




















Monday was the wedding day and the morning was much the same for me. Eric was gone again to go golfing on a world class course with a hole that is literally it's own island. He was VERY happy. I did much the same lounging, and swimming and going to the spa. Both days at 4:00pm we were also able to Skype with Bella and Dad so we had a chance to see our beautiful girl and how much fun she was having. Nana was back from England by this point so Bella had been spoiled rotten for DAYS now. She was kind of confused by Skype but seemed to enjoy talking to us.


That evening we headed down to the beach for the Wedding. It was incredible, one of the most amazing weddings I've ever been to, THE most amazing, with the exception of Eric and my wedding.































































































The ceremony was beautiful and then we sat down for a multiple course meal, each course more amazing then the last. It was topped off by the dessert course. I get hungry again just looking at it.
















Of course following the wedding is a good reception and one on the beach is even better! This turned into another late night of beach playing, Hermit crab fights and overall really good times.




























































Tuesday arrived too soon and it was time to go home. Although I wish we could have stayed one more day I truly missed my girl. Eric was finally able to enjoy waking up with me and not early as well as a walk around the resort and the amazing breakfast buffet. We swam in the pool and the beach and then headed to our room to pack. Once at the airport we checked in and then hit the duty free shop which was one of the highlights of the trip home. Flying home was relaxing as well and blissfully uneventful and I continued to read my book, play cards and sleep.

We got in around midnight which was too late to pick up Bella, Grudgingly woke up and went to work the next day desperatly wanting to go get B and get some good baby snuggles. Finally at 3:00pm I was able to head to my parents house where I learned all about the great adventures Bella had with Poppie and Nana, she was very happy to see me and I was VERY happy to be home.

~Trish

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Other side of the table

This morning I dropped off Bella at Sunnyside ( the new amazing daycare that we LOVE up at KU) and I was stopped by the morning lead teacher. We had a great conversation about how my little angle might be a bit more aggressive then your average toddler. It was kind of a surreal moment for me as a teacher since I have so often been on that side of the table, finding delicate ways to tell a parent that their kid is not doing exactly what is expected. The teacher did it beautifully, he started with a compliment about how well drop offs are going, he talked about it as the behavior of aggression never about Bella as the child. I found myself a little disappointed that she is still biting, and hitting although my mother would look at me, smile and say "Karma baby." It's something Eric and I already know about and do our best to change the negative behaviors at home with positive reinforcement, redirection and time outs. I told him to let me know what they use there so we can be consistent at home finding that I wanted so much to be the "good parent" the one that supports the teacher, and school and the child at home. I think having a child has truly made me a better teacher at least in my communication with parents. They are no longer the opposition, I can see their point of view because their child is their jewel as Bella is mine. It's a pretty surreal feeling to be on this side, I think my daughter is the most amazing child I've ever met but nobody is perfect. Maybe one of these days we'll find her in her room with her stuffed animals lined up telling them "no hitting, not biting, no pinching, no scratching, no punching" Exactly like I did at age 4. Ahhh Karma.
~Trish

Monday, September 13, 2010

Monday, September 6, 2010

Friday, September 3, 2010

Have a good weekend, everyeone...

In honor of Labor day weekend, here's a photo of Bella going through the family tree, as Mimi and Poppa Boom are coming to town. Take care everyone, be safe, and enjoy some Bob's 47...

[Editor's Note: Bella nailed this the first time. This was the second take, and though she finished strong, I didn't get the camera out for the first take. Apologies.]


Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Falling Behind

I know it, you know it, do we really have to talk about it??

We have had many adventures to blog about lately, including our trip to Mexico. However, since school started I've been swamped. I started teaching a new class this year, English 9. I love it but since it's my first year teaching English so it takes some adjusting to the extra grading and the extra planning that goes into a new class. The point is, don't despair and don't go away! I will have Memorable Mondays for you each week and we'll get back to our regular posts shortly.

~Trish

Friday, July 23, 2010

18 month photo shoot

As you saw from our memorable Monday post, We had the great fortune to have one of Lawrence's best photographers, Trina Baker, take pictures of Bella on Monday. The only bummer to the shoot was that Eric wasn't able to be there for a family portrait (although, I don't think he minded missing a photo shoot too much) We're going to make him sit down and do a family picture when Bella turns two. We took the photos in my mother's incredible yard and even got her to dress up for a couple of 3 generation shots. It was a beautiful day and a blast. Trina is going to set up a spot on her gallery page (see blog links for Gallery 32) so if you would like to buy a print or two go for it! But for now here are some highlights from our shoot.























Saturday, July 3, 2010

Congrats Mark and Brandi!!!

On June 26th my cousin Mark got hitched. He married a fabulous woman named Brandi that he's been with for many years. She already feels like one of the family so we were all thrilled to head for their Wedding in Manhattan (as thrilled as two die hard Jayhawks can be). I was also truly honored that they asked me to sing in the ceremony. I have never sung in a wedding by myself before and I was thrilled to do so for theirs. So on Friday June 25th Eric and I headed to the little apple. We checked into the Hotel and lounged around for a while before heading to the rehearsal, which went beautifully, the rehearsal dinner was also a blast with Mark's restaurant catering Fajitas in a beautiful park. Bella loved seeing the ducks and geese and playing with her cousins. It was great to have so much family in town. Uncle Tim, Aunt Lauren, Jen, Kerry and the kids as well as Tom, Alex and Jeff all came up to Manhattan from Boston and Topeka. Not to mention the Rosen clan who were the main participants in the Wedding. It was great family time and really fun to meet Brandi's family as well. My dad was in New York and Mom in a show up at KU so Eric and I represented the Averill Lawrence division with pride.
One of the best things about a wedding that's not yours is that you have time beforehand to enjoy the hotel, area, and events. Saturday morning we lounged around the room for a bit. Bella found her comfy char and proceeded to spend some time reading.




















































We then headed to the pool where even I braved the freezing water ( the heater was broken) then was rewarded with some time in the hot tub hanging with the Moffits and Rojacks. After a leisurely morning Bella slept a fully two hours while Eric and I napped and got ready. We headed for pictures around 2pm and to enjoy a 3pm wedding. Here Bella and I are all dressed up.


















Bella picking up Lili's rose petals. Lili is now a professional flower girl. You may remember her from our Wedding but Mark's wedding is her third. She is for hire, just let me know.


















After a short and beautiful ceremony we headed to the Kathouse for the reception. Uncle Tom welcomed everyone with a bagpipe serenade that Wilbur truly enjoyed.


















Wilbur and Bella were great friends. However, Bella is refusing to let Wilbur dethrone her on her booth.


















Mark's resturant catered the Reception as well with BBQ that was delicious. We were very impressed with the variety of excellent food they serve. It may even force us to go back to Manhattan to enjoy. Here Eric and Bella eat dinner with the same determination I think the phrase Mmmmmm... Food is what's going on in both their minds.



































We've discovered that when we have a toddler wetend to leave a wedding reception around the same time as the old people. So once we enjoyed the food Bella hit her limit and we headed back to the Hotel. It was a pretty hot afternoon so we were all ready to enjoy the freezing pool and explore the hotel. Here we find Mama Monster in the trees.


















And Bella discovered drinking fountains.


















In addition she got into EVERYTHING on our adventure, the fountain.


















The dining area


















Then we met up with cousin Mira who is just shy of 1 year old.


















The next morning we waited to join the family for brunch. We hung out in the Moffitt room with them and the Jackson-Rosen clan. It was a blast to spend time with my cousins and their little ones. It's so fun to have kids all around the same age. Here is Paulie with the always fabulous Lili.


















I finally got a picture of the bumper crop cousins. These three girls will all be in the same grade even though their mama's are different ages. Mira (Kari and Paul's) Bella (ours) and Mahala (Jen and Kerry's)


















Here they are with siblings, Lili is Mira's sister, and Wilbur is Mahala's brother, Bella will have a sibling at some point, don't you fret.


















We had a fantastic brunch and then headed back to L-town. We even almost left without forgetting something. Sadly, Kitty was left behind. Luckily the hotel was kind enough to send her back and she arrived today. So Bella is now happily asleep with her stuffed Kitty in her arms!

It was a beautiful Wedding. Congrats to Mark and Brandi and we wish you a lifetime of happiness. I sure have fun being married I wish them the same.

~Trish

Monday, June 21, 2010

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Happy Father's Day!



















First a big cheers to all the great Father's out there. Sadly, not all father's are great so those of you who landed a good one, make sure to hug them and remind them of how special they are. I am one of the lucky ones who landed not only a Great father but, an OUTSTANDING father. My daddy is one of the kindest, most compassionate, talented, charming and funny people I know. Plus, like a fine wine ( which he always thought to be a very pretentious drink) He only grows better with age. Watching my father with my baby is one of the most beautiful things I have ever seen. So here are a couple memories I'd like to share of my amazing father, and Bella's outstanding Poppy.























Memory #1: My own childhood was beautiful, a loving home, great family and great friends. My father was a huge part of that. Even though he often traveled he remained a constant in my life. One of my favorite experiences with him is going to any theme park. We would always ride the rides together while Mom and Will stayed as far away from the roller coasters as they could get. The countless hours in line, minutes of pure excitement and just me and Dad time that we shared at all those theme parks is so special to me. It was my time with my Daddy and it was perfect!

Memory #2: Watching my father with Isabella is incredible. Of course, I don't ever remember him being that willing to fork over chocolate, or hop of his computer to play with me ( he did, but he literally Jumps away from what he's doing to be with her) But my favorite memory so far is spending the evening at my folks house and Bella's bedtime. Dad will often sit at the piano and play a well known tune or just improvise. As he plays I rock my sweet baby in my arms and listen to the incredible music he gently coaxes out of our old family piano. The first time we all shared this magical moment was last Christmas and I can't wait to share many more with him and with Bella.


















I can't even begin to talk about first hand watching the joys of fatherhood without a very special shout out to my incredible Husband. Having such a wonderful father really sets the bar high for that man you fall in love with and marry. I knew from day one that Eric would live up to that bar and as much as I love my own father, Eric is really taking it up to the next level. Maybe it's the joy I have in my own relationship with Eric or just the fact that I get to be a part of helping him grow as a father but He is truly incredible. From sleepless nights together helping each other get up to attend to the baby, to mall crawls, to Farmer's Market mornings, I love spending time together as a family. Watching Eric with Bella is truly magical, his patience, kindness and true adoration with her is hard to even describe however, I'll try. Here are some special memories of Eric as a father.

Memory 1: Watching him wrestle with Bella is hysterical. That girl already has her daddy wrapped around her finger. Hearing her laugh as they play is the most magical sound I can think of and the equally jovial laughter coming from Eric is music to me. His kindness with her is special and I can't wait to watch all the games, experiences and joys they will share together in our lifetime.

















Memory #2: Eric's selflessness when it comes to Isabella is incredible. He would do anything for her, jump over backwards and even lose sleep without complaint. No matter how tired, ill or feeling out of it Eric always does better and continuing to focus the same love, attention and patience on Bella. She is never a burden to him but always a blessing.



















More of what I feel about Eric as a father is based in emotion as we still have many more experiences to share. There are so many things I look forward to; hearing all about father/daughter trips to the ballpark, the store, the movies, games in the yard. I also can't wait to share the family experiences together of finding our next dream home with a couple more kids in mind, supporting each other through our lives and careers and of course being just the two of us again when the kids grow up and move out. Each experience will be an adventure and I'm so blessed to be on that adventure with the world's greatest dad, husband and best friend. I love you Eric!

A special shout out to some of the other influential Dad's in my life. My father in law J.P. My brother in law Chris, All my Uncles who have been there for there own children and for their nieces and nephews as well. My dear friends who are on this journey the at the same time Sean, Seth, Clint, and the Husbands of my Mommy Mafia group. And of course our dear grandfathers, two out of three have passed on but their legacies as great fathers and grandfather's remain.

So all you Daddy's out there, Enjoy this day, you deserve it!!!

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

18 Month Well Baby Visit
























I think we can take out the baby part now. Isabella is truly no longer a baby, we now have a toddler on our hands and I beautifully perfect one at that. Above Bella is making her "Sad Face" and it's about the cutest thing I've ever seen.

Bella and I just got home from her 18 month check up and I'm so proud of our girl. Somehow she got the Tall and Skinny gene from somewhere and recently had a huge growth spurt jumping up in height. So big in fact that even the Dr. wasn't expecting it. Here are her 18month stats:

Height: 32 1/2"
Weight: 21 lbs 5 oz
Head: 47 cm.

And PERFECT. She's hit all her milestones and more. The only thing we have to keep working on is that blasted diaper rash. Doc. said the sooner we get her potty trained the sooner it will go away and she's certainly leaning towards the desire to potty train. She lets us know when she goes potty and even walks over to the bathroom door when needed. Eric even got her to go poop on the potty, it was just a little but a great triumph for mom and dad. I hope we can keep it up.
Not much else to report, the doctor recommended lots of swimming and beginning to teach her water safety. We are huge fans of swimming so that won't be a problem. Also, Bella's language development is out of this world. She has many two word phrases and tons of words, I can't even count anymore. Speaking of counting, she clearly counts up to three. Man that child is smart. (she gets it from her.....parents)

Exciting weekend ahead, The Neuteboom's are coming to town and we are planning a ton of fun events, a trip to the Zoo, golfing and dinners at home and out.

That's how we put the "Boom" in Neuteboom.